When I get ready to talk to people, I spend two thirds of the time thinking what they want to hear and one third thinking about what I want to say.

Abraham Lincoln
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When you are preparing to talk to people, you can spend a great deal of time thinking about what they want to hear and a small amount of time thinking about what you want to say. You can easily get caught up in the things people say rather than the things that they mean.

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